Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Solstice Post....And Some Thoughts about Courage and Who Matters...


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"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear."~Ambrose Redmoon

About Courage....And Why It Matters....
Courage matters in so many ways, large and small and sometimes even silently. I am mentioning this issue because I am tired of watching a Smear Campaign unfold day after day over on Twitter. There is someone there who is attacking really good people, I am not even sure why, maybe it makes him feel good or "Bigger", or maybe it is for attention. But this I do know most people are having a hard time this Christmas, his attacks are cruel and baseless, and unwarranted. So many people are dealing with illness, and job issues and economic issues, his attacks could seem Petty and small minded. But they are damaging and hurting the Fabric of the Left. I have lost friends because of his attacks and lies and smearing. I have lost Followers on Twitter and Facebook and even gotten emails that were hate filled and senseless. I am and was a whistleblower, I know a thing or two about attacks, trolls and hate. Yet I have to say there is nothing worse than Hate on Our Own Side that is spun into a frenzy and fueled by people acting like Children. It is why I wrote the Cyberbullying Post, because I don't think Silence helps anyone. ( The post I wrote on Cyberbullying is here that I wrote earlier this month.)

I share here and on Twitter and Facebook..I share my life, my home, my political thoughts. And yes, I post my Home, because in many ways I open up my heart and my home to all, I share. And yes, if you are rude to me, or my friends...I shut the door, I have to.....( On Twitter or Facebook that means you are Blocked...)

So I am just saying it right here, right now. I stand by my friends, and I say what I mean and mean what I say...... And there are certain people I value, not all of them get along or are even friends...but I love them all and value them...very very much and I have told them Publicly and Privately. The past two years working on the Book there were certain people who really were a Rock ....and I am grateful...very. So as this Solstice reveals and unfolds this year , I value those in my life and also those who have been there for me....I honor Who and What you are, and I KNOW you...

Is it Wrong to want Peace here and in Twitterland ? Is It Wrong to not want to be gossiped and slammed like a Highschool nerd ? Is it wrong to want Peace for dear Friends ? (seriously I had enough of that so many years ago) Is it wrong to want Solidarity on the Left ? Is it wrong to expect and hope that People will act like adults and have Compassion ?

Signed...
Praying for Peace...We Need It.

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A Video for Solstice...

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"Every day you either see a scar or courage. Where you dwell will define your struggle. " ~Dodinsky

4 comments:

Taradharma said...

I am not a tweeter, so don't know the situation over there. I did go to your link and read, and it seems to me that Twitter execs should start setting up safeguards to deal with bully behavior, and to provide access to victims who want to report abuse. Seems simple, but maybe the execs at Twitter get off on the drama and think it boosts users. Who know? Maybe it does.

I find really ugly, inane comments on news sites. Anonymity really provides cover for kooks and bullies. Some news site have adopted a 'registered user' policy where anonymous comments are not allowed. I think this is a good direction. It also elevates the conversation when people have to identify themselves. Not so willing to be an a**hole then.

D.K. Raed said...

we know you have courage, enigma, and that you will not tolerate those whose agenda is disruption and hatred. it is never wrong to not want to be a party to gossip and rudeness. intelligent discussion of opinions, yes! insults and rudeness, no!

those trying to cause division and/or bullying have no real courage ... it is the kind of false courage that finds a home in the anonymous virtual world.

enigma4ever said...

Thank you both for your wisdom and your courage...so beautifully spoken...

Carolyn Moon said...

No it isn't wrong to want peace, absence of bully behaviors and civility.

I'm totally with you on this one.

Over the years I've learn to face my fears and go forward no matter what. That's true courage to feel the source of your fear and work towards resolving it the best way you can. Your quote by Ambrose Redmoon is right on point!